Couples Connection
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The couple’s connection you’ve always dreamed of is closer than you think.

What if the wild romance that swept you off your feet could be yours in as little as 30 minutes?

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Connection made easy
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Do you remember the game of building your own telephone with a string and two tin cans? How the voices vibrate across the line? If the line gets loose the magic slips away.

Relationships are a little bit like this: the line is dropped and we find ourselves just existing with someone we once passionately connected with.

Who I Am: Couples Connection Architect

Hi my dear friend, I’m Lumalia, a connection architect. Together with my:

  • Training as a movement-based Kindred meditation facilitator 
  • 200hr yoga certification
  • Working with couples for over 13 years 

 

I guide couples to cultivate connections that rebuild their game of telephone: finding fun and wonder again.

Ready to Touch Magic?

Savoring it all together water and grapes meshed with tenderness and beauty of the age we’ve so wrongly accused | Oh my beloved, how I long to sip more of your crimson nectar.

“How are you so dreamy?” | “I’ll keep wondering the same of you as I begin to behold where dreams and reality merge.”

Tell me of your pains, beloved, for I want to hold them close, warm your aching bones. I will not heal you but I will hold you until you too see the power within to transform the pain from suffering to the stories of your voice to stretch through darkness and find it is there you’ll know the light. Hang tight and trust in the abundance of any way always being divisible by two

I’m sitting out here as the sun paints it’s orange and golden melodies across my yard and think is this my life? What a magical world it is if you look just right, not too tight but just soft enough to let the subtle roll in.| It will astound you if you just lean nearby | Come let’s touch the sky | And paint our worlds with its fragmented delight | I’m here ready for flight | Come my dear let’s hang tight | For I fear if I let go | You’ll disappear | Yet abundance calls me on | To rest in her arms of faith | Knowing receiving is mainly in the letting go

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My Couples Connection Certifications

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Certified Facilitator

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As Seen On

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“Lumalia took great care to make us feel comfortable but more importantly encouraged ways to make us feel connected to each other and at times, she almost disappeared from our awareness (in the best way!) so that we were then simply hanging out together, laughing and having fun. Perhaps this is the experience and catalyst we need to inspire more romance!” – Lesley

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The Journey We’ll Take

I’m here exploring with you, holding bravery and safety so we can all dive into the unknown, looking for the connections of who we want to become, who we are and who we’ve been. 

Imagine your life together as magical, wild, and fun.

The intimacy you’ve always dreamt of is one yes away.

Will You Say Yes?
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Raves

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★★★★★ 5/5
Riana
“She truly has a passion for helping couples strip back the layers of noise and busyness and get back down to enjoy one another…this is such a sweet and unique way to date your spouse and have a true treasure to look back on. I highly recommend Lumalia for her knowledge and expertise as well as her passion and desire for couples to live beautiful stories. “
Canticle
“Its nice to connect, seems so simple to get a deeper connection than just talking. It felt very effortless full of power. Doing this with my partner was very beautiful and seeing him in ways I don’t usually see him felt beautiful.”
Jack
“I felt very relaxed. I felt closer to my wife and a sense of intimacy that isn’t sexual.” - Jack
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What You'll Really Do

I'll guide you to have

  • 1:1 curated playful experiences
  • Curated meditative practices
  • Conversation-based exercises

It’s gonna be as easy as licking the icing off the top of a cupcake.

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How It Works

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  • 1. Schedule A Free 30 Minute Call
  • 2. Discover Which Offering Fits You
  • 3. Dive Into Your Couples Connection Experiences
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Offerings

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Couples Connection Offerings:

  • 1:1 Work on Zoom or In Person
  • Group Classes & Experiences
  • Couples Getaway Experiences that include couples photography
  • Couples Retreats

See my full couples connection offerings here.

After your free couples connection experience, we’ll go over the different offerings. 

Offerings range from*:

  • $35 for a group class
  • $222-$555/mo for:
    • three-month 1:1 on Zoom or in Person
  • Getaways begin at $1,777/mo for
    • three months 1:1 work plus an in-person getaway couples connection and photography experience.

*Scholarships available for couples in need. 

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Raves

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★★★★★ 5/5
Marissa
"The biggest challenge my husband and I faced when it came to connecting was being able to “read between the lines”. Lumalia's workshop in mirror neurons and connecting in a phase of just sending or just receiving helped us to learn each other’s body language and listen on a different level. We both are excited to move forward with the tools that Lumalia gave us to help cater to each others love needs especially with the tools to communicate without being physically present with each other. If you are on the fence about wether or not this is for you, jump on in! Time spent learning and growing with your partner is ALWAYS time well spent. "
Peter
“I was really struggling with a lack of connection between my partner and me. Once we started the sessions … We seem to satisfy each other's needs far greater now. I think the individual session and homework were the most helpful. My discussion with Lumalia about filling my own cup and doing things that restore my own energy gave me more to share with my whole family. The whole experience has been wonderful, and I would highly recommend Lumalia. If a couple was questioning the value of these sessions or were on the fence about signing up, I would say that my partner and I listened to Lumalia's suggestions, then put in the effort, and it worked wonders for our relationship.”
Canticle
"My husband and I have been together for a long time, so we are always looking for new, fun and helpful ways to keep our relationship fresh! Lumalia helped me remember how it feels to be held by partner in a truly deep and meaningful way. I found the connection exercises extremely helpful...Her approach is calm, direct and open ended, allowing us to break down any preconceived expectations we may have. I felt very comfortable and seen by her. Our relationship has grown and expanded through the few sessions we have by bringing to light some things we know we are good at and some things we still need to work out. She invited us to try a few fun exercises like the notes and snack making that we have continued to do even afterwards. I would highly encourage a couple to try these exercises and watch how the walls melt down and you feel connected to yourself and your partner in a new and fresh way. It brings you back into the moment and into remembering the love you cherish so deeply."
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Why Couples Connection Is Important

Our whole world benefits when we feel fully loved and accepted. We become freed up to do our most powerful work. Everyone deserves to be in this level of intimacy.

Let's Celebrate Again!
Let's create a garden of growth
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It's Going To Be Epic

We’re cultivating a garden of growth:  a wild place inside of you two that is full of the most delicious fruits. Soon you’ll find your hands sticky, your mouths watering, and your bellies so full and satisfied in yourselves and each other.

I cannot wait for you to experience this. 

With all my heart,

Lumalia

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