Couples Connection Experience
The missing piece to your relationship:
a whole Body Experience
Empowering emotional and physical intimacy
Welcome to your couples connection experience.
Many couples want to stay in the deep romance they first experienced when they met, or moments when life was good but sometimes forget where that connection lives.
spoiler alert, it’s in you:
a whole body, mind, heart connection.
goodbye to years of exhausting talking it out to reach "aha" moments and connection
Raves
I SEE YOU
Hi lover, I see you struggling to stay connected admist life’s wild rides.
I get it, I lost a lot of connection with my husband of 11 years when I was a new mom, business owner, and battling chronic illnesses.
Yet something in me knew there had to be a way two people could stay wildly in love for a lifetime, but how?
That was until the wisdom of my body spoke and I found joy, pleasure and passion aren’t something we learn how to do, or get permission to have, it’s something we practice giving space for.
Many believe that healing in relationships comes from endless discussions, pushing harder, and doing more. The truth is
connection is your birthright
and it’s time you remembered how to tap into the wisdom already
residing within you.
What is a Couples Connection Experience?
- Simplified emotional and physical intimacy through mind-body connections: Dive deep into the world of embodiment (connecting your mind and body), somatic practices (modalities that look at the body holding memory), and mind-body work, uncovering their potent healing abilities—achievements that traditional conversations and talk therapy might take years to reach.
- Fun & Uniting: Discover how these somatic couples connection experiences and practices aren’t just transformative; they’re also incredibly fun ways to communicate, break down barriers, and simply enjoy being together.
- Playful Learning: Embrace embodiment… in short, our time together will be filled with playful exploration and meaningful learning. With my unique guidance, experience with couples for 15 years, and specific trainings and certifications you’ll find yourselves reconnecting and rediscovering each other in ways you never imagined possible.
Couples Connection Guide
Hello lovely, I’m Lumalia, poet first, deep romantic, great explorer, and a curious creator of all the beautiful things of what it means to be alive.
I’ve been working with couples for 15 years now and the mind-body connection for the past decade.
Even when I was only working as a photographer with couples, I had couples telling me the time we spent together was some of
the most beautiful times they’d had together in a while.
This is why I knew this work was important. I kept falling in love with
how to go deeper.
I’m a certified 200-hour yoga teacher with the Yoga Alliance and a certified Kindred Meditation teacher.
I’ve studied alongside Dr. Chelsea Page on intimacy, Jesh De Rox, a cultural anthropologist in human behaviors and somatic meditation, and Amy Rachelle, an intuitive energy healer, and licensed therapist.
I’m deeply steeped in somatic work, neuroscience, and personal development.
You can read a bit more about my journey here.
Darling, I cannot wait to cheer you two on
Certifications
Certified Facilitator
As Seen On
Couples Connection Experience Details
The Reconnection Goodies
Sparking Intimacy Connection Modules
Six Modules to look at your relationship from a holistic approach in six pillars of:
- Emotional Intimacy
- Communication Skills
- Physical Connection
- Values Alignment
- Conflict Resolution
- Joy Creation
Every other week in an hour long 1:1 call with Lumalia well dive into each of these topics from a mind-body approach, building deeper resources in yourselves to handle all of these topics every couple needs to thrive and deepen your bond.
(Value $1200)
Self Care Radiance
Empowering you from a state of depletion to overflow Lumalia will guide you during a 30 minute 1:1 live call to support you on an individual level.
Support also includes three months access to 100+ resources inside the Celebrate Again Self Care membership.
Often most of our struggles in relationships stem from self.
These calls will dive in to rewiring subconscious patterns, programs and invite you into more play in your own life promoting a new level of self love that will radiate out into all your life and relationships.
(Value $2200)
Playful Date Nights Made-for-You
Goodbye boring date nights, struggling with leaving the couch or knowing what to do.
Hello a curated idea base on your needs as a couple asigned to you by Lumalia after each bi weekly Intimacy Connection module call.
(wanna a little taste of Lumalia’s rave date ideas? Check out this date ideas list!)
(Value $400)
Celebrate Again
Let the magic of your 12 week transformation be hit with a peak experience. Perfect to celebrate your next anniversary or just because getaway.
Lumalia will help you find the most epic location* to celebrate your love and capture you in your beautiful connection with her decades of experience as a couples experience curator.
See Lumalia’s photo galleries here.
(Available in select packages)
*(Lumalia’s travel fees outside a 2 hour radius of PDX are not included in the packages.)
(Value $3000)
What's in the 6 Connection Modules
First, you’ll be given a pumpkin carriage...
and then I will arrive in a beautiful glittering ball gown with your household mice…just kidding…while I do love the archetype of the magician, I’m here as your guide.
Each week we’ll be tapping into these subjects.
Connection
Do you desire more emotional intimacy and connection with your partner beyond the surface details?
We’ll be diving into mind-body exercises and experiences that help you discover the connections you crave.
Communication
Do you sometimes misunderstand each other and feel exhausted in your communication?
We’ll be adopting new mind-body communication techniques for simpler expressions.
Passion
Do you desire a passion that lights up your whole body?
We’ll be stacking on creative experiences that evoke the heart of your connection beyond just the physical.
Compassion
Do you want to have greater ease in conflicts?
We’ll be sharing in mind-body exercises and practices that will help you cultivate a deeper sense of compassion and openness as you become active listeners and compassionate to yourself and your partner’s experiences, creating healthy conflict resolution skills.
Depth
Do you desire a deeper level of joy and experiences together that you haven’t been able to find outside of vacations together?
This whole experience and this week will guide you into discovering new emotional depth. Yes, you’ll probably cry together in a way maybe you never have before; it’s beautiful and celebrated here; we love emotions; they are just indicator lights. 😉 (So many couples experience this, and it’s marvelous to witness)
Alignment
Are you ready to step into the future together with your shared values shared goals?
Explore how to align on goals and life desires, supporting each other fully even if they don’t always match up perfectly, giving space to grow together in unique ways.
The Investment
Door close on March 1, 2025 12pm PT.
Spaces limited.
(One sliding scale scholarship is available to a couple in need.)
Couples Connection:
12 Week Flavor Full
- Couples 1:1 somatic embodiment calls bi-weekly covering all six modules.
- Date Ideas bi-weekly curated for you
- Self Care Support 1:1 bi weekly 30 minutes calls with Lumalia
- Replays of calls to revisit through the weeks and available for 6 months after the program ends.
- Bonus 3 month access to Celebrate Again Membership including self growth roadmaps, 30 day self care callenge, self love yoga series, and library of 100+ pieces of self development and self care content.
- Bonus 20% off anniversary photography session with Lumalia. (Used within two years travel fees not included.)
Couples Connection:
I like it Lavish
- Couples 1:1 somatic embodiment calls bi-weekly covering all six modules.
- Date Ideas bi-weekly curated for you
- Self Care Support 1:1 bi weekly 30 minutes calls with Lumalia
- Replays of calls to revisit through the weeks and available for 6 months after the program ends.
- Celebrate Again couples photography experience that includes 2 hours of photograph on location, 30 digital photos and $150 print credit.*
- Bonus 3 month access to Celebrate Again Membership including self growth roadmaps, 30 day self care callenge, self love yoga series, and library of 100+ pieces of self development and self care content.
- Bonus 20% off women’s retreats with Lumalia. (Used within two years travel fees not included.)
*Travel fees not included for locations outside 2 hours of Portland, OR.
Sample First & Save Your Place Now
Sign Up here
- Fill out the form below.
- Then, you’ll be redirected to schedule a free 30-minute sample call with Lumalia. This is a bonus call, not one of your 12 calls.
- If we all feel like a good fit after our first call we’ll get your spot saved!
Is this Couples Connection Experience
for You?
Do you want to feel reconnected to yourself and your partner?
Are you seeking a passionsate relationship with your current long-term partner?
Are you unfulfilled by talk therapy, seeking faster results?
Do you desire a deep connection but unsure where to start?
Are you curious about the subconscious mind-body connection?
Do you desire to be seen and understood more deeply by your partner?
Are you seeking greater appreciation from your partner?
Is your busy lifestyle making regular connections challenging?
Are you wanting more fun and play in your relationship?
F.A.Q.
What if we are busy exhausted parents?
This is FOR YOU. I get it, as a mama to three girls all tweens, life is busy. But this relationship is the model they are watching and setting standards for their lives.
More than that you deserve to receive and be in the relationship you desire.
But I get it: sometimes, we have to start by saying, “Let’s make this good for the kids,” when in reality, we’re making this good for everyone.
When parents are thriving so are kids.
What happens during the calls?
For the bi-weekly couple calls, we’ll dive into each of the 6 modules.
During the calls, we’ll spend half our time in conversation and the other half in embodiment practices, such as meditation or movement.
For the self-care support calls, Lumalia will work with you , depending on where you are in your self-awareness journey, to create practices and resources that support you daily.
Most of our wisdom is stored in our body, including our main form of communication, which is body language, which we pick up biologically. So it’s from here, we’ll move and grow.
Will there be yoga?
Yes, in some ways, but not in the traditional sense. Our program invites mind-body connections without the cultural baggage that yoga might carry for some. We prefer to think of our activities as exercises rather than yoga, even though I am a yoga teacher. This gives you the power to shape your own experience.
However, if you have a fondness for yoga, in the bonus Celebrate Again Membership there’s an entire library of videos I’ve created over the years for you to enjoy. These are also beginner-friendly, ensuring everyone can participate and benefit.
What if I don’t like meditations?
I get you. Sitting still can feel boring. Honestly, I didn’t like meditation until I learned one of the modalities I’ll be sharing with you called Kindred, which pairs movement with visualizations and guided meditation. It invites movement on your terms and is the most fun meditation I’ve ever done. And, well, everyone I’ve taught for the past three years. People say things like I didn’t know this could be so fun, and my cheeks hurt so much, and how good it feels to share without words… wait, I bet it’s going to rock your world like it did mine.
We often think of yoga or meditation and breathe work. And those things come with a lot of weight and meaning depending on who you are and your background. While we will use concepts from these areas, the experiences you’ll be going on will first involve your imagination and invite your body into the whole experience.
What if we are near a divorce?
If you’re near a divorce I wouldn’t recommend this program for you. Dr. Chelsea Page is a great person to seek out for immediate therapeutic care for this level of conflict.
Does anyone else like good savings?
- Just think that traditional talk therapy costs $200 per hour; it would take six months of just talk therapy to get where we are going in just 12 weeks, which would cost $7200. That is a $5700 savings. You’re welcome.
When can we schedule Calls?
Calls are based on Lumalia’s availability calendar which includes openings during Monday through Thursdays hours from 10am-1pm PT most days with some days having later appointment times like 4pm or 5pm PT.
After you sign up you’ll be sent a welcome email series with steps to schedule your calls.
What if we cannot make the live calls?
You get what you put in.
If you know you are too busy to carve out time in your schedule to show up fully present in the live calls I’d challenge you to look at the root of why it doesn’t feel safe to show up fully for your self, relationship, and your partner. And this may be something a talk therapist may be more equipped to support you in.
Payement Plans
- A $150 non-refundable deposit is required upon sign-up to secure your spot. This amount will be credited towards your total investment.
- Following the initial deposit you pay the rest of your tier package or set up a payment plan.
Refunds: I’m a fan, too:
I believe that if you commit to showing up to the calls and doing the creative experiences with open hearts, you will wonder why I charged you so little. 😉 However, I’m all about investments feeling so good, so I’m offering that by meeting 2, if you and your partner have both shown up for all the live calls with an open heart, fully participated in the creative exercises, and are not seeing any improvements in your relationship I honestly want you to save every single penny and get traditional couples therapy, so I’m making this fully refundable by that date, no questions asked.
Disclaimers:
If you are experiencing any forms of physical or emotional abuse from your partner, I strongly advise you to reach out to the domestic violence hotline 1-800-799-7233 and know that there is support for you, which is, unfortunately, not this program.
If you and your partner are on the brink of a divorce, cannot communicate at all together, or are in a lot of solid verbal disputes, I do encourage the support of a talk therapist before entering into this program.
Lumalia is not a licensed clinician. Although she is a certified yoga and meditation teacher, it is advised that you seek professional release and care to participate in any of these activities if you have a specific diagnosis.
This program is not meant to treat or diagnose anyone.
Raves
Why Couples Connection Experience?
Experiences change us.
This is why my couple’s connection work is a whole-body experience. They hit our subconscious, hit our whole bodies, hit our pasts and our futures.
Experiences land us in our bones.
It’s why I’m a poet first and a guide second. I go first into these wonders learning all the hacks and bring them to you brimming hot off my experience plate.
So, what about you?
Are you ready to say yes?
- Yes to the love you so sincerely wish to experience.
- Yes to the one you know; this is why you choose them in the first place.
- You weren’t foolish and young once upon a time; you were full of passion.
it’s time you remembered you can have romance every day
Let's Create A Garden of Growth
We’re cultivating a garden of growth: a wild place inside of you two that is full of the most delicious fruits. Soon you’ll find your hands sticky, your mouths watering, and your bellies so full and satisfied in yourselves and each other. I cannot wait for you to experience this.
With all my heart,
Lumalia
Samples Anyone?
because that’s the best part of getting ice cream, and I want this to feel like dessssert.
Ready to give it a spin? Try out my 1.5 hour workshops recorded from when I hosted a couples connection experience on valentines day for $20.
