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Reconnect Challenge 2019!

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The month of February is nearly upon us! While most of us—myself included—are still coming down off the holiday/New Year’s buzz, we may have also realized that Valentine’s Day is around the corner and that we might not even know the last time we connected with our beloved or significant other. Well, I’d love to start a habit of changing that this month by taking time each day to pursue our beloved.

Introducing this Reconnect Relationship Challenge!

Each day will include a challenge sent to your inbox with a creative way to pursue your significant other. Each day will include something simple, such as: Send them a text thanking them for a few ways they have loved you well recently. Every day will also include a bonus challenge that is for all you overachievers, uhm myself included, that want to dig in deep every single day.

Mid-week, a few date ideas will be sent out that suit your stage of life or status so you can plan out when to have a weekly date.

The hope is that by the end of the month, you’ll have developed some daily habits of pursuing your beloved that you can carry into everyday life or even take these ideas and repeat them each month if you’d like.

The best part is you don’t both have to do this but it will all the more fun if you both do participate!

So who’s in!? And guess what, it’s COMPLETELY FREE!

Sign up on the list below, make sure to add my email address emmy at searchingforthelight dot com to your contacts so the daily emails don’t get lost in your junk folders.

If you’re the instagramming type and want to share with everyone feel free to this hashtag #pursueyourbae or #30daybae You can also participate by following along on my instagram.

This year I’ve decided to level it up by giving a way a FREE reconnect photography session! To enter into winning this free reconnect session you must participate every single day. If you miss a day don’t worry just double up one day.

I’ve created a little calendar for you to print out and set up so you can mark off each day as you participate. On March 1 email me ( )  a photo of your marked up calendar. It will be by the honor system so let’s all play fair! The calendar will work as your entry. I’ll then do a drawing and announce the winner the first week of March. For more details see rules below.

Rules: Entries must be emailed in my March 1, 2019 midnight MST. Participates must participate in Reconnect Relationship Challenge every day to enter drawing. Participates must be 18 years of age or older. One entry per person each couple can then have two entries total. Prize includes one one hour reconnect photography session with Searching for the Light Photography, includes 30 digital files and must take place within 30 miles of Denver, Colorado or is subject to additional travel fees. Prize has no cash value and must be used in the 2019 calendar year or prize holder forfeits the use of prize. Prize is non-transferable. Prize cannot be exchanged for a different type of photography session with Searching for the Light Photography nor used towards a photography date booked with Searching for the Light Photography before February 2019. Prize cannot be used for elopements, intimate weddings, family, branding or newborn sessions.  Winner must agree to signing a photography agreement with Searching for the Light Photography and agree to all the terms listed in the agreement or forfeits the prize. Prize session subject to current availability of Searching for the Light Photography. Searching for the Light Photography reserves the right to dissolve this prize for any reason surround disrespectful behavior of prize winner.


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Hey, I’m Lumalia, the main voice behind Celebrate Again. I call myself a connection architect because I have a deep passion for guiding us all to fall back in love with life through states of beauty, but many of us are far from feeling at home in our own bodies, so we seek to find safety in others. 

Yikes, that’s scary, I know; I did that for three decades, too, until I returned home to myself.

I’m so excited to share with you all I’ve learned and this beautiful journey back home to what makes you absolutely stunning just because you are alive today.


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