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30 Day Relationship Challenge

30 Day Relationship Challenge: A Free Guidebook

Calling all disconnected couples ready for a 30 day relationship challenge!

Who here feels disconnected from your partner to often?

Life keeps you busy and you frequently find yourself scrabbling to find time to connect with your beloved.

You absolutely adore them, well most of the time, haha, but it’s so easy to let life keep happening and your romantic relationship turn into more of a business partnership.

Well, friend, that’s why I’ve created this 30 day Reconnection Relationship Challenge FREE Guide Book.

Hey! I’m Lumalia (Emmy), a couples connection architect, and one of the couples anniversary experience curator and photographer here at Celebrate Again!

I have a crazy passion and vision for seeing couples keep celebration their love story with an epic photography experience I help them hand create. You ready to have your 30 day relationship reset?

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Download Your 30 Day Relationship Challenge Here

Ready to connect every singe day with your beloved in one simple step?

Fill out the form below to download our free 30 day relationship challenge guide book.

We respect your privacy. If you don’t see your download immediately after signing please check your spam/promotional folders or email us .

Why a 30 Day Relationship Challenge Guidebook?

If you’re looking for that quick printable you can find that here. >>>

But, we also want to provide you with something more.

In our 30 day relationship challenge free guide book you’ll find 30 days of challenges, daily descriptions to give you ideas4 fun date ideas, and bonus challenges, because who doesn’t want to “level up”?  (I see you game lovers out there!)

Are you ready for your 30 day relationship recharge?!

What's in the 30 Day Relationship Challenge Guidebook?

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A Daily Challenge

A Daily Challenge: Each day for a WHOLE month you will have a daily challenge that will have you simply and creatively pursue your significant other. Imagine having 30 days of showing love!

A Simple Idea: Each day will include something simple, such as: Send them a text thanking them for a few ways they have loved you well recently. A 30 day spouse challenge made simple.

30 Bonus Action Steps

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Bonus Action Steps: Every day will also include a bonus action step that will help you dig in deep every single day. Perfect for a 30 day challenge for married couples.

Weekly Date Ideas

Date Ideas: Mid-week, you can view the four different date ideas that will help you plan out a weekly date.

P.S. You can find more ideas here: 50 fun date ideas!

Fill In Calendar

Daily Calendar Included: To keep on top of your challenge you’ll receive a calendar and chart with all the challenges.

Use the calendar for your every day life and as a reminder to do the challenges!

What's the Goal?

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The goal is that by the end of the 30 days, you’ll have developed some daily habits of pursuing your beloved that you can carry into everyday life or even take these ideas and repeat them each month if you’d like. I hope these are fun relationship challenges that leave you more connected!

What if my partner doesn't want to do the 30 day relationship challenge?

The best part is you don’t both have to do this 30 day relationship challenge. But, it will all the more fun if you both do participate!

If you’re riding solo on this 30 day couple challenge list then know that your efforts won’t go unnoticed and your partner may start to have so much fun they want to join in too!

Pro Tip Go in with no expectation especially of reciprocation. Do this to show your love, have fun yourself and enjoy the gift of showing up. 

Ditch the need to be noticed and enjoy the process of giving.

So who’s in!? And guess what, it’s COMPLETELY FREE GUIDE!

Sign up on the list below!

Share on Instagram!

If you’re the instagramming type and want to share with everyone feel free to this hashtag we  made just for this challenge to cheer other couples along!


Do the 30 Day Relationship Challenge With Friends!

These fun relationship challenges are so much more fun to do in community.

So send this link to a few other couple friends and make a party of it!

Doing this in community can help you stay accountable, swap ideas, and share silly stories of the fun challenges.

Have A Big Party After!

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We love celebration around here (you know being called Celebrate Again.) So, why not celebrate at the end of the 30 days by have one group double date! 

We’re so excited for you to join!

Sign Up Here

Download Your 30 Day Relationship Challenge Here

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Ready to connect every singe day with your beloved in one simple step?

Fill out the form below to download our free 30 day relationship challenge guide book.

We respect your privacy. If you don’t see your download immediately after signing please check your spam/promotional folders or email us .

Connect More Ways

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Fall in love with your partner again, and connect in this unique experience we’re bringing Online and in Portland, Oregon.

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In-person tickets will sell out, so snag your spot before they do! 

What if you could connect with your partner in as little as 30 minutes?

Hey! I’m Lumalia and I’m a  couple’s connection architect. 

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I believe at the core of every human is a deep desire for intimacy. Forever passionate about seeing others spark and discover their deepest joys, I use my diverse experience to bring you inner and outer experiences that are dripping in aligned alchemy. Are you ready to connect with your partner more regularly? Check out my couples connection experiences.

Want to have an epic experience together?

Hey! We’re Lumalia (Emmy) and Team couples photographers but more importantly we’re couple experience makers. 

We believe that your wedding day or anniversary deserves a unique celebration, one that takes you away from the every day overwhelm and into a place that allows for deep connection. We’d love to help guide you in crafting an unforgetable experience that we hope will transform your relationship deeply. Learn more about hiring us as your Oregon elopement photographers,  Colorado elopement photographers or anniversary photographers!

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Hey, I’m Lumalia, the main voice behind Celebrate Again. I call myself a connection architect because I have a deep passion for guiding us all to fall back in love with life through states of beauty, but many of us are far from feeling at home in our own bodies, so we seek to find safety in others. 

Yikes, that’s scary, I know; I did that for three decades, too, until I returned home to myself.

I’m so excited to share with you all I’ve learned and this beautiful journey back home to what makes you absolutely stunning just because you are alive today.


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